Comments on: When does “judging” not equal “judgmental”? http://www.personalityplusinbusiness.com/2009/when-does-judging-not-equal-judgmental.html MBTI tips and artful resources for women with that entrepreneurial spark Sun, 05 Feb 2012 21:58:56 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Sandy McMullen http://www.personalityplusinbusiness.com/2009/when-does-judging-not-equal-judgmental.html/comment-page-1#comment-84 Sandy McMullen Wed, 11 Feb 2009 22:20:23 +0000 http://www.personalityplusinbusiness.com/?p=94#comment-84 I appreciate hearing that other people know what I am talking about. It's interesting that my experience of you is anything but judgmental. The inner landscape is unknown and unseen and holds such power. A sense of humour is an absolutely necessary companion to growth and transformation. Thanks for the chuckle. I appreciate hearing that other people know what I am talking about. It’s interesting that my experience of you is anything but judgmental. The inner landscape is unknown and unseen and holds such power. A sense of humour is an absolutely necessary companion to growth and transformation. Thanks for the chuckle.

]]> By: Patsi aka The Blog Squad http://www.personalityplusinbusiness.com/2009/when-does-judging-not-equal-judgmental.html/comment-page-1#comment-83 Patsi aka The Blog Squad Tue, 10 Feb 2009 20:58:59 +0000 http://www.personalityplusinbusiness.com/?p=94#comment-83 I'm working on the 'judgmental' thingy on a continual basis. I find it is one of the hardest mental habits to shake, because it's tied up with 'discernment.' I pride myself on being able to sort out good from not so good, what's worthy of my attention, not worthy, etc. There's a fine line between discernment, decision making, and making judgments. And, it's one of the most destructive mental habits because it consumes massive amounts of mental energy, which takes me away from being present in the here and now with the person in front of me... Then there's the big trap of judging myself for being judgmental - ouch, when will it all just subside to tranquil acceptance of what is...? Thanks, Sandy, for raising this concept to our attention, a worthy post - whoops, there I go again! I’m working on the ‘judgmental’ thingy on a continual basis. I find it is one of the hardest mental habits to shake, because it’s tied up with ‘discernment.’ I pride myself on being able to sort out good from not so good, what’s worthy of my attention, not worthy, etc.

There’s a fine line between discernment, decision making, and making judgments. And, it’s one of the most destructive mental habits because it consumes massive amounts of mental energy, which takes me away from being present in the here and now with the person in front of me…

Then there’s the big trap of judging myself for being judgmental – ouch, when will it all just subside to tranquil acceptance of what is…?

Thanks, Sandy, for raising this concept to our attention, a worthy post – whoops, there I go again!

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